Manipulative, controlling, attention-seeking, shallow, unable to show compassion, Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde, irrational and the list goes on. Does this sound familiar? These are just a few traits that describe an abuser. The world calls it narcissism, God calls it demonic. Though the Bible may not point out the narcissist by this exact label, we can look at their behavior and understand that it comes from the enemy. In fact, if you look at individuals in the Bible such as Saul and Nebuchadnezzar, you will see narcissism on full display. There is truly nothing new under the sun! The Bible says, “Be alert and of sober mind. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour.” 1 Peter 5:8.
Identifying the Narcissist
Focused on personal image; always wants to appear upright and moral to the public eye
Claims to have many friends, but unable to maintain these so-called relationships
Well-rehearsed in the lies they tell each new romantic partner, friend, business partner
Ability to deceive the individuals closest to you, about your character
Perhaps you believe I am being “extra” or “over-the-top” in stating that narcissism is demonic. I also used to think I was overthinking this. However, I have come to realize that demonic spirits are designed to lie to you, terrorize you, control you, torment you, inflict fear and pain, and utterly destroy you so that you won’t pursue or fulfill your purpose. This is exactly what the abuser does!
When you are in a relationship with an emotionally abusive person, it can be quite difficult to move forward in life because every waking moment has been spent trying to please them around the clock ensuring their happiness, even at the expense of your sanity. No matter what you do, it’s never enough. That’s how the enemy works when he has you in bondage. He continues to take from you, drain you, and then leave you feeling like you don’t measure up. An abusive person will tear you down.
The spirit of God does the opposite. He will correct you, but He will not destroy you. There is a difference. The demonic nature of narcissism seeks to make you unsure of yourself and completely reliant on them. The Holy Spirit empowers you, encourages you, and lifts you.
One thing is certain. While the narcissist may have everyone else fooled with their smoke and mirrors, remember that God cannot be fooled, nor will He be mocked. The truth will surface, and God will vindicate you. There is no need to seek revenge or “pay back.” Hold your peace. God’s got this battle.
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